'Unable to establish reciprocity' when trying to pair SRM sites

I have two VC (2.5 U3) sites each with SRM (1.1 U1) installed using the default certificate option.  When I try to configure a connection from the Protected Site, the last step 'Unable to establish reciprocity' fails with the following error message on the screen: "Local and remote servers are using different certificate trust methods".

I'm following the SRM Admin Guide instructions carefully and I have installed the untrusted self signed SRM certificate, but still get the error.

Has anyone seen this problem before and resolved it?

Here are a few SRM log entries pertaining to the error:

SSLVerifyCertAgainstSystemStore: Subject mismatch: win2k3-vc3.strickland-inc.net vs ThisHadBetterNotBeAValidHostName!!

SSLVerifyCertAgainstSystemStore: The remote host certificate has these problems:

* The host name used for the connection does not match the subject name on the host certificate

ProbeUrl found win2k3-vc3.strickland-inc.net:80//sdkTunnel(1) =>  4B:A4:87:A2:7F:61:B2:70:E9:AE:DB:5E:9A:04:E3:8F:64:5B:79:CE true

Stored credentials, key='win2k3-vc3.strickland-inc.net', username='administrator'

VC Connection: Logging in as user 'administrator'

VC Connection: Logged in session BC73E519-4DC1-4432-94CA-51DB48A2484B

VC Connection: Logging out session BC73E519-4DC1-4432-94CA-51DB48A2484B

VC Connection: Logged out session BC73E519-4DC1-4432-94CA-51DB48A2484B

ProbeUrl for win2k3-vc3.strickland-inc.net:80/win2k3-vc3.strickland-inc.net:8095(2)

SSLVerifyCertAgainstSystemStore: Subject mismatch: win2k3-vc3.strickland-inc.net vs ThisHadBetterNotBeAValidHostName!!

SSLVerifyCertAgainstSystemStore: The remote host certificate has these problems:

* The host name used for the connection does not match the subject name on the host certificate

* The host certificate chain is not complete.

SSLVerifyCertAgainstSystemStore: The remote host certificate has these problems:

* The host certificate chain is not complete.

ProbeUrl found win2k3-vc3.strickland-inc.net:80/win2k3-vc3.strickland-inc.net:8095(2) => win2k3-vc3.strickland-inc.net 47:2B:5E:BF:DE:DF:64:81:8B:B6:74:08:B3:CC:0D:4D:67:47:33:2D false

Removing stored credentials associated with key='win2k3-vc3.strickland-inc.net'

ProbeUrl for win2k3-vc3.strickland-inc.net:80//sdkTunnel(1)

SSLVerifyCertAgainstSystemStore: Subject mismatch: win2k3-vc3.strickland-inc.net vs ThisHadBetterNotBeAValidHostName!!

SSLVerifyCertAgainstSystemStore: The remote host certificate has these problems:

* The host name used for the connection does not match the subject name on the host certificate

ProbeUrl found win2k3-vc3.strickland-inc.net:80//sdkTunnel(1) =>  4B:A4:87:A2:7F:61:B2:70:E9:AE:DB:5E:9A:04:E3:8F:64:5B:79:CE true

Stored credentials, key='win2k3-vc3.strickland-inc.net', username='administrator'

VC Connection: Logging in as user 'administrator'

VC Connection: Logged in session 4ECD7E47-4F2E-4546-9FA8-706D73280307

VC Connection: Logging out session 4ECD7E47-4F2E-4546-9FA8-706D73280307

VC Connection: Logged out session 4ECD7E47-4F2E-4546-9FA8-706D73280307

ProbeUrl for win2k3-vc3.strickland-inc.net:80/win2k3-vc3.strickland-inc.net:8095(2)

SSLVerifyCertAgainstSystemStore: Subject mismatch: win2k3-vc3.strickland-inc.net vs ThisHadBetterNotBeAValidHostName!!

SSLVerifyCertAgainstSystemStore: The remote host certificate has these problems:

* The host name used for the connection does not match the subject name on the host certificate

* The host certificate chain is not complete.

SSLVerifyCertAgainstSystemStore: The remote host certificate has these problems:

* The host certificate chain is not complete.

ProbeUrl found win2k3-vc3.strickland-inc.net:80/win2k3-vc3.strickland-inc.net:8095(2) => win2k3-vc3.strickland-inc.net 47:2B:5E:BF:DE:DF:64:81:8B:B6:74:08:B3:CC:0D:4D:67:47:33:2D false

Removing stored credentials associated with key='win2k3-vc3.strickland-inc.net'

Task created

Adding task com.vmware.vcDr.ServiceInstance.AddRemoteSite-1

State set to running

Scheduling work item

Running work method

Created Inventory Mapper for site 'site-25'

Configuration parameter checkInterval is not specified

Check interval: 60 sec

Configuration parameter warningDelay is not specified

Time delay before raising low priority event: 120 sec

Configuration parameter panicDelay is not specified

Time delay before raising high priority event: 300 sec

Configuration parameter panicRepeatDelay is not specified

Time delay before raising repeated high priority event: 300 sec

Remote site instance added to the list.

Progress advanced to 10

Stored credentials, key='win2k3-vc3.strickland-inc.net', username='administrator'

VC Connection: Logging in as user 'administrator'

VC Connection: Logged in session F0A12872-7FA5-45EE-83A5-347BED241CB2

VC Connection: Logging out session F0A12872-7FA5-45EE-83A5-347BED241CB2

VC Connection: Logged out session F0A12872-7FA5-45EE-83A5-347BED241CB2

Removing stored credentials associated with key='win2k3-vc3.strickland-inc.net'

Server currently is removing site! (cross side call)

Failed to create remove paired remote site in CreateRemoteSite: Unexpected MethodFault (dr.fault.PairingInProgress) {

    dynamicType = <unset>,

    msg = ""

}

Work function threw MethodFault: dr.fault.IncompatibleCertificateTrust

Fault:

(dr.fault.IncompatibleCertificateTrust) {

    dynamicType = <unset>,

    msg = ""

}

Error set to (dr.fault.IncompatibleCertificateTrust) {

    dynamicType = <unset>,

    msg = ""

}